See, this is where I am confused. I've said it before and I'll say it again. How is my sitch any different than anyone else here? I mean seriously.
Yours? Not much. Like so many others that come and go from this site you like them are hanging on to every little scrap thrown your way. Clinging to them.
Hoping that agreeing with her to get rid of the last asset you share will convince her to change her mind. When it won't. Thinking that if you embarrass yourself by exposing the fact that she is now interested in other men she will some how come to thinking that marriage counseling is the savior. When it won't. on and on and on.
So many different signs that the best solution is to 'set them free' are misinterpreted as hopes of reconciliation.
I remember some guy on this site whose wife would 'blast' at him about everything he did or said over instant messenger and he would find hope in that. She wouldn’t give him the time of day otherwise. Slept with other men.
So. No. you really aren't different. And I wouldn't consider it infidelity at this point, more like, she is realizing she needs some male companionship and is seeking it out. It's probably about time
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I think if my W told me on the bomb day that she was dating I would have approached the situation differently than I did.
Well now she did. How will you approach the situation differently? How many different ways does need to say it until you realize?
