It is tougher. I do find that he is loses his temper quicker now, but he does get over it quick. Thats what makes it a bit easier for me NOT to walk on eggshells like before. These are different eggshells. Not sure how to explain it. I know all to well the feeling before of walking on them eggshells when he came back multiple times before. I guess maybe before it was a "lets see if it will work" reconcilation, now its a "lets make it work" reconcilation.
I dont like the anger I see in him. I see it all too often in my 3 younger sister's relationships. I believe they are all 3 in danger with their so called men...thats why I dont like the anger part. BUT it is something that didnt happen before he first left. He NEVER got mad. THerapist said he held it all in. NOW he doesnt. Guess its just part of the process. He hasnt been to therapy in a few weeks, but will go on MONDAY. I will be glad about that. He needs to talk to his therapist about the last few weeks.
I will have to read up on your thread SCh. Thanks for the good wishes
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
