I don`t usually post on your thread but I have read it lately because it`s sort of like my sitch.... I`ve really been hoping for you that things will work out
I think it`s tougher then a `normal` relationship because normally people WILL argue, and they WILL upset each other, but they will NOT run away. Our WH`s have shown that they don`t deal with the things that come up in a relationship and they ran away before, and so we struggle with whether or not they will run again. And partly we care so much because there are kids involved, and they are getting hurt by all this too.
I don`t know what the answer is, I really don`t! Maybe there is just something wrong with them. That`s what my Dad says (but ya know, he`s my Daddy so, he would say that anyways!).
Last week WH got mad at me for some small slight. Didn`t talk to me for a week. Easier in a way for me because he is NOT home. I kept imagining though, what if he was back home and did that. I would have to walk on eggshells for a whole week until either he came around or I did something else that ticked him off.
I don`t understand the ANGER. It`s too strong, and inappropriately placed, and comes up over and over again. Like with your H now. It is a big problem.
Hang in there girl, I am wishing and hoping your H see`s this as some silly bump in the road and things go back to reconciling with you guys.
