Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

PH, I'm very sorry to hear about your mom. My prayers are with her and your family. How are you doing with your cancer? Is everything ok?

I hear what you're saying about wanting to look for the opinion you want to hear.

I think if my W told me on the bomb day that she was dating I would have approached the situation differently than I did. I would have done back then what I'm trying to do now which is to see if and how to confront her and expose. I agree that it shouldn;t affect my path now. Trying to figure out what that path is at the moment.

I appreciate everyone sticking with me. Just trying to deal with this confusion. Sometimes I vent, sometimes I think out loud and sometimes I want to run ideas by everyone to get their input. Taking things day by day...sometimes hour by hour.