I agree with Rob. Sometimes us men are too easy to manipulate if we follow our own ego: we can either get too hopeful and pursue somebody who offers crumbs or pout like a little boy.
Your wife has an ego too. But shhh! She's more in control of it, but stop letting her pull your strings and see it work.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-