Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

See, this is where I am confused. I've said it before and I'll say it again. How is my sitch any different than anyone else here? I mean seriously.

The majority of people here have been told by their WAS they ewant a D. Ok, so does mine. Yet everyone here is looking for ways to deal with it and get advise for many issues such as saving the M, dealing with infidelity, etc. That's all I'm doing yet I'm not getting blasted for it.

If the advice to everyone else here is just to give up then this site would be pointless. This site is supposed to be about saving marriages, at least that's what I thought.

I agree with a lot of the advice here. Now that I have this new news of W wanting to date I've asked Allen on the other forum to let me know how to handle it. Everyone says that he's very good to talk to when infidelity is occuring. That's all I'm doing. Asking him what he thinks yet I'm being ridiculed for it. Why? Why the attacks?

Most everyone is still with me. I think they understand the pain I'm going through the past few days. Why is it so hard to realize that this hit me just like the news when she left me? That I am trying to process everything right now? Good Lord, all I'm trying to do is deal with this and ask what others think too. Give me some slack everyone, please.

I'm not rushing into any decisions.