I agree with you 100% that W and I need to go to MC together but I can't get her in the door. I have no idea how I can do this? Perhaps after I expose her infidelity she might go.
he's getting his ears tickled in the Infidelity forum.
I'm sure this latest saber rattling will get her to MC.
Next stop MLC forum.
I don't think you can consider it infidelity, you guys have sold the house or will very soon, I'm assuming paperwork is in process as to filing for divorce, I'm sure she has started something already, she is moving on, if she's on a dating site, it's public, easy to find her, she isn't trying to hide anything, what will you hope to gain from exposing it. She has told you she doesn't want to be with you anymore but you continue to cling to her.
Exposing her attempts to date other men on this website you found her on is just going to show her and everyone else how insecure & clingy you are, I don't think anything good can come from this. If you tell her family and friends, they already know about your situation and will feel sad for you that you just don't get the fact that she is moving on and it's time for you to let go.
Marriage counseling is for couples who want to help fix their marriages, they are both invested in the process, it isn't for a couple that are on the path to divorce where only one spouse wants to save the marriage and the other has been ready to leave it for quite some time - you can't use counseling to change someone's decisions, that would never work.
