Good Morning! I am reading through the threads, waiting for my copy of Divorce Remedy to come from Amazon, but really want some advice now. My husband and I have been married 6 years, and we are a blended family. He left three weeks ago - when given the choice of "her" or "me," he chose to move in with "her." It is hard, but I am learning not to call or text him, and am actually having a great time with my new-found freedom! I have lots of girlfriends and a great support system, and my own kids are now grown and college-aged. His kids are with their mom, and he is neglecting his relationship with them totally, but that is his responsibility, and I am not taking that on. However, that leaves very few reasons for us to have to communicate at all, which scares me that the normal things that might eventually bring us back together will not work with us. I have friends that say "put the divorce in the works," and force him to decide if this is what he really wants, but I have others who say "wait and give him time to miss you and see that this affair is not going to be all he thought it was." Any advice from those of you who have experienced this situation will be appreciated! Did I mention that this seriously looks like a mid-life crisis for him, as it is so completely out of his character and he is like a different person than I married? Am I just delusional for still hoping this is "temporary insanity" on his part and we might still be able to work it out and have a great marriage if he comes to his senses?
