I told my co-worker on break today the comment wife made at my place, which was "that's the difference between you and me, if I know she wants it I'll go out of my way to make it happen." He said "Why would you take that crap from her? It's a rude and hurtful comment, like she cares more about D13 than you do. You should have said "that's the difference between you and me, you'll lie and cheat behind my back for years whereas I never would" Good one! P.S. Enjoy the cottage SFO and watch those tan lines!