Man, I could build a palatial log cabin with the 2x4's I'm getting today, hehe.
Coach says I am doing ok overall, but need to step up my (lame) game, stop drowning W in my fire hose of pursuit, and stop being childish and needy.
MM78 tells me I'm still overescalating and one-upping her, bringing condoms to the PTA meeting.
A whole herd of people are telling me I am her emasculated, gay, no chance in a million years friend.
And her love bucket has holes to boot.
Good times!!! Let's see what I can eff up 2nite =) Hehe
I'm curious if ANYONE disagrees with the gay friend assessment.
If not, is the only way out of that to not allow myself to stay in that category (going dimmer and not accepting overtures unless there is clearly some expression in the overture of you are not my gay friend)? The part I struggle with is don't I still have a responsibility to help rebuild trust and make amends for the EA's? Doesn't going dark and "demanding" her to do all the pursuit go against that?
busto...
What some of us learned the hard way is allowing your wife to cheat on you and allowing her to bully you behind it, and cut you out will eat out of your masculine side...
It literally is as if being put into a "gay" role, where you can help them out, they won't take a step towards you, they will see other males as viable masculine candidates, they will have sex with them, they will not have sex with you and project weakness into you by the way they are looking at you.
Not good. I think robx nailed it, I knew this too.
