The moral of the story is that the boundaries swing both ways.
Are you saying if I continue to enforce my boundaries that he will develop some of his own?
Here's one I have trouble with. When he's in these funks and I try to call him he doesn't answer the phone. If I leave a msg he doesn't return my call. It drives me crazy. I feel a strong urge to call again. What is best?
He: WAH Me: LBW Precious: DD
~ I'm grateful for every day I have to improve the way I relate.