In my case, the girls are older and understand that we are living separate lives. I promised D8 I'd invite STBXW to Medieval Times ... and I did, but was relieved when she turned me down.
I'm not including the inlaws on anything that the girls and I do together.
But that's me. You seem comfortable around his family and that's the key, what are you comfortable doing?
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6