Pun...I understand your need to let him know...I wasn't saying that was wrong...I just think, and this is my own thought on this, that is was way too soon...there was no urgency to him...by waiting until closer to "the date" he might have been forced to dig a little...plus the whole signing of the waiver thing would have probably died down so as not to be part of the mix... Timing is everything in this... I would contact his son about the cabinet...I would be respectful and just tell him his dad asked for it and right now you don't want to get into a conversation that isn't necessary but you want him to have his cabinet so he (Brandon) is welcome to come and get it. And...personally I would not email anything like BeingMe suggested...I know for a fact in my situation that I would have gotten a D...that would have stuck in his head and there is no way he would have come back begging...he would have taken that as permission to finish it off!...but you know your H...I just really feel that very few actually return in such a dramatic way as begging...they really just want to slip back in and pretend it never happened...it isn't all about pride either...it is about dignity too...and as much as they might have trashed ours it is still important to preserve theirs...and I wouldn't have done that to my H even after what he did to me...it would have served no purpose other then to humiliate him...
