I’ve been divorce busting for 3 months and my H has suddenly had a change of heart and is willing to work on our marriage. Up until now he has been very focused on the mentality of “it’s too late”. He emotionally abandoned me for the past three months and had an EA & PA.
I have been concentrating on working on myself and the goal of him becoming invested in our marriage again. While it’s great news that he wants to try working on our problems, I am very hesitant about trusting him again.
He was all set to move out, then started waffling and wondering if it was the right thing to do. Since he already paid for a months rent, I encouraged him to be on his own for a while. It’s been one week and he is already talking about wanting to come back.
We both agree we have a lot of work to do to get back on track, and I am happy to see some hope, but I want to make sure he is coming home for the right reasons, not just because he is uncomfortable.
Could use some help figuring out where to go from here.
