It is not a silly problem and you are not hijacking at all. I cant post some of the stuff that I have endured because OW reads my posts but I can tell you they would make your jaw drop. My point is everyone deals with their problems differently and what you are experiencing is no more painful than the next. This is the man you loved and married and I can understand how you are feeling. I think you will find that if you start thinking about what YOU want and what YOU need and stop communicating it to him then you will have peace in your life. Change what you can change and the rest will just fall into place. You deserve to be happy! Do me a favor...pick something that you always wanted to do in your life, for me it is running a full marathon and selling a painting and make a goal to do it..let me know what it is and I will help you! I know it may sound silly but it will help you focus on you!
