Crushed.....

I have been reading your thread since you started posting, and I gotta say.....You are all over the map...

You have some of the best people here posting to you, and yet you find every excuse to blow them off...

So your wife is MLC.....

Boo, F-in Hoo...

Doesn't give you permission to be the victim.

So you had a "fling" and felt no guilt over it...

My guess is, because you did it to get back at her..

Tit-for-Tat...Sorry , doesn't work that way.

You say you want to 'hang' to "work on you"...When does that start ?

You think its lonely now ?

Try walking the streets of Bitterville when it gets dark outside.


Right now. you have been given a gift....A gift of time, to sort through yourself,and find you again.

THAT is your only free pass here...

You are choosing to be Crushed
You are choosing to be Stuck
You are choosing to be a victim

Are you starting to see the pattern ?


To become UN-crushed
To become UN-stuck

Your choices need to be different...

Until you choose differently, your patterns will repeat.

I hope you choose to stay and do the work.