But you kept the vessel intact and even improved it so it could hold something even better. Be at peace with that.
AJ
Thank you. I like this metaphor. And yes, I am aware of the pain that is yet to come. In fact, I had a moment yesterday ... we overlapped for a few minutes at the house, and when I left I was overcome with a feeling of sadness. So I sat, felt it, owned it ... and let it go. Hit me again last night for a few minutes and a group of really terrific friends (you know who y'all are )talked me through it. I'm human. It will happen, I did love him very much.
And I also know that I will be ok. No other choice. I will still be standing when the dust settles.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
)talked me through it. I'm human. It will happen, I did love him very much. 
