I was way more communicative than her. In fact, even when I told her how happy she made me feel, when she did, she could never say something as simple as 'you do that for me too or I feel the same way' the three words 'i love you' were probably only said a handful of times. It's not that she hated me it's just that she felt it was more important to not disclose what she felt inside and rather keep her cards close to her. I would not want that in my new relationship, I want to hear and see that my partner appreciates me, she cares about me and she loves me just as much as I do.
Dude. What is up with all these WAS's? Seems they are all cut from the same cloth. My stbx is the same. Would never say ILY unless I said it first. I always felt like it was terrifying for him to tell me anything nice, even a simple compliment because he felt he was "losing" by showing any sort of emotion (though that was not the case when he was pursuing me--ugh).
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
I no longer love my H. I don't respect or trust him. I also knew the despite the work I was doing those feelings would have to die their natural death. And they have.
CG, how long did it take for you to start feeling this way (the death of your L for him)? Very curious to knwo how long it has been for others...
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
D's GF thinks we are divorced. She will learn otherwise when the process server shows up at THEIR door. In a way I sort of feel bad for her (not really, lol!)
Hee hee! But seriously, he is lying to her about still being married to you? Oh dear GAWD. Yeah that will be an interesting day for them when the server shows up (though totally not your problem). Love that he was texting you he loves you while out with her. What a douche.
