Looking for some advice!

The last meeting I had with H, I asked him to take over one of our credit card payments. I had a form for him to fill out taking my name off of the credit card...he said he would. WELL, he hasn't and it is now 2 payments behind and I am getting the phone calls. I should have had him fill out the form and sign it while he was here but didn't.

This is my fear (yes, a fear!)...

I have been basically dark or very dim...not calling H at all unless it is an issue with the kids or we have a question about operating something around the house...or that something isn't working. To me, WE, the kids and I represent "problems" for him...we are told to be the better option but how can I be that if I have to call and ask for his help or if I am calling about money issues? Is this making any sense?


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing