I was involved yesterday with a chat with a bunch of people from this board and we had a guest appearance.
(LOL, not really)
Anyways I copied some pertintent questions that really apply to the LBS.
So if the author wants to take credit she/he is more than welcome.
I did edit a few bad words out of these to protect us from the author's moderators
I thought they were particularly good questions.
We all need to ask outselves.
Anyways I want to thank those participants in the chat.
I had a good time.

What was your role in this ? The break down of the marriage?
[13:34] michelle weiner-davis: How did you play a part in that ?
[13:34] michelle weiner-davis: What do you accept as your shortcomings ?
[13:34] michelle weiner-davis: What is MLC fluff ?
[13:34] michelle weiner-davis: What "stung"
[13:35] michelle weiner-davis: How do you envision your future?
[13:35] michelle weiner-davis: Are you willing to sell yourself just to have your marriage back ?
[13:35] michelle weiner-davis: What are YOU worth as a person?
[13:36] michelle weiner-davis: Can your soul be replaced if you give it away for a relationship ?
[13:36] michelle weiner-davis: (persons name)....who are YOU ?
[13:36] michelle weiner-davis: Don't give me Father, Husband, and all of that stuff either
[13:37] michelle weiner-davis: YOU !! ????
[13:37] michelle weiner-davis: How can you be anything for anybody if you don;t know you?
[13:38] michelle weiner-davis: What values do YOU own, if you sacrifice them ?
[13:38] michelle weiner-davis: When you can answer all of those....then you will know where your line in the sand is....

michelle weiner-davis: What are your limits ?
[14:12] michelle weiner-davis: What is your tolerance ?
[14:12] michelle weiner-davis: What defines you ?
[14:12] michelle weiner-davis: What are your fears?
[14:12] michelle weiner-davis: What are your strengths?


Me-70, D37,S36