cheated on, lied to, and now I am moving on

[awest1217]

Feeling better everyday. Last night the stuffyness did not get as bad as Wednesday so each day a little better. I slept so well last night! It was the coolest night here since July 1 so it was nice to have the windows open and cuddle under my comforter.

It is a daddy weekend which works out well because it is also MIL's birthday. I got her a bracelet with her birthstone all over it. It is beautiful and I got it cheap because my cousin lives in Peridot, AZ where they mine peridot and so it is really cheap.

I plan on getting some stuff done around the house...mow, rake, plant some grass seed. Get everything needed for S's birthday party which is a week from Sunday. It is the smallest party he has had, but that is because I haven't invited H and his family. I have gone back and forth on inviting them, but I just don't know SUGGESTIONS? I am leaning towards not inviting them because soon they will not be part of my life and they haven't tried to do anything with me and S since I filed, which I am fine with, but it makes me think to not invite them. However, my BIL's don't know yet so I feel bad that they have to miss out. Everyone lives together (I know pathetic ages 28, 25, 21) so I can't invite on person without them all. Plus I feel bad for H's grandma because she never gets to see him at all especially since his parents and brothers never get time with S (see above).

So I will take any advice, but I am personally leaning towards not inviting.

Today is test day and to start of the day I will be known as the ________________ because I am going to round up all the dress code violators and walk them down to the attendance office for discipline. Our dress code is no holes or fays above the knee and pants up so you can't see the behind. I see at least 20 students (who are not mine)everyday who do not follow these rules so I am going to get them today. I hate when students or anyone for that matter know a rule and feel they are entitled to not follow it.