92 if you havent left the bed yet DONT, its your marital bed your not the one possibly having an A so why should you move out! If you H finds its uncomfortable then he can move rooms. I know this all sound very hard and unnerving at the beginning when everything is very raw and painful, but actually the list above is imperative and even though its so counterintuative it works. I know its not easy to see who are VETs on here and who are newbies, but spend some time reading posts so you can work out whose who! Lots of good advice on here which you will pick up as you read along (())


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!