Well folks just to say we are back and had an extremely good holiday, lots of laughter and fun, met lots of new and interesting people. Son really chilled out and we did a lot of adult conversations between us, son as grown up so much it is amazing, came home and son had to collect his grades from his exams, I am so pleased that he passed all the exams he took before leaving high school, way to go son way to go smile. On another note, to say his father said he wouldnt be contacting son or myself again, he did indeed send him the birthday card and money and also a text message on his actual birthday to wish him a happy birthday and fantastic holiday, son didnt reply and says he doesnt intend to, if dad says he as finished with me so be it was his response when I asked, oh well ex you have done the damage yourself yet again. anyways onward and upwards folks so the saying goes xxxx