Not much to report, W has been silent since I put my foot down, I feel it will be like this for a while. i will not let it bother me. Her idea of being civil through this is her having control, no more. I will text her tomorow about picking up the kids about 2 hours before, and make sure she has packed stuff for them. I was a little hard on john28 tonight, but dammit I think he is making the same mistakes I have made in the last 2 months.