Well, it's a bit farther for me, but I will try to come!
I still bet it is $. He might seem that he is ignoring everything, but he is in selfish mode. And I think that means he has that part figured out.
((((((NB))))))
You may be right, Jeff. I don't know what goes on in his head anymore.
Talked to a couple of "divorce coaches" in the past 2 days. I want someone to help with the co-parenting, give custody advice, etc. H probably won't go with me and it's unbelievably expensive, but I will shell out the money for D3 if it seems worthwhile. Have an appt on Monday with the more expensive- but recommended by 2 people I trust, instead of just one- one. I think it's probably worth $225 to see if she's any good and if she can help. Too bad H won't be able to hear the advice from the neutral party's mouth, though- he won't believe it if I relay the message, so not sure how much it can help us as a "team" if only one of us is following the advice. Feel like a single parent already, on my own. Actually, I have all along, just thought that when it was REALLY important, H cared as much as I do about her and what's best for HER, no matter what.
