Enough! Let her move her @ss out if she's so F'ing "miserable."
She has become the emotional abuser in this sitch.
Since when has there been a statue of limitations on a broken heart or the pain of being cheated on?
The Kübler-Ross model, commonly known as the five stages of grief, modified,
Denial - you are allowed 2 -3 weeks to get with the program Anger - you are allowed a few occasional outbursts only Bargaining - 15 minutes. Just tell me what you are going to give me on my trade in. Depression - not allowed? Acceptance - <= 3years
The problem was during the time when she came back we went to a C for about 8 sessions. then school started and she never came back to the C. that was Sept 2008 through april 2010, she seemed to be doing fine, we even went on a road trip all the way to florida to disney with her family (set of 1yrold twins,2-5yrolds, and a 3yrold) her sister and husband, and their parents. Even went without a plan on where to stop..etc But anyway, until april 2010 i thought everything was going good. I was still seening a C every monday more about my addiction problems then anything else. One evening we have a argument and she says she had started seeing a C, that had put her on Zoloft. July 24 i come back from a work trip and she says she wants me out...shes done doesnt want to work on anything anymore...
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010
