Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[BeingMe]

And I just said well it's your home too, but I'm the one not involving a 3rd party and keeping up my end of the vows.

Good comeback. You can also refer to it as the marital home, and the OW should not be allowed to enter it, even through the phone, if he has any respect for your vows and his children who are a product of your M.

Have you thought of contacting one of the telephone DB counselors? I believe they are very good.