im sorry Lotus but I disagree. I dont think Johns wife is going willingly, I thinks she is going for the wrong reasons. I really hope I am wrong, but I have kept up with hissitch, and the constant tests, and the games she plays with his head are not what you do when you love and care about someone. I am speaking from my own experience, I feel I have been in a fog myself with what my W has said, but again what she does contradicts what she says. I do beleive that M is not something you play games in, both of our W's have had affairs, and yet it keeps going like this, this is not normal.
