Had conversation with wife. Wow. I don't know where,if anywhere I can go with this. I told my wife we have both been under stress lately and if we could, start working on this with no pressure or obligation. That I've tried to be there emotionally for her but may need some help from her as to what she needs.And understand that until we connect emotionally that we won't connect physically. I promised no pressure for sex because I don't want her to avoid hugging me for fear that I would expect more.And she said she didn't want to lead me on with hugs and felt like she was being forced to hug me. She said all the things I'm saying now she said for years and i told her not to feel that way back then. I said I'm here now with open arms and a loveing heart. She said she knows I've changed but she has molded herself from those times and is different now. And said we get along good but there is something missing. And that she can't say more than she just goes day to day. She said there's something, that I call MLC, that she's trying to figure why she's not happy. There I told you wow.She has mo commitment to try. I did say we should try to find those pieces that are missing or have someone help us find them but got no response.
