I know you were wavering on the friends and being pleasant/attracting her back and the boundary stuff. There really isn't a conflict in them.
Your drawing a boundary exudes strength and self respect and confidence. These are attractive.
In order to show her love you use tough love. You show her as a strong, self respecting, confidant man you are not allowing her or anyone else to treat you like this without there being consequences.
The consequences are limited to you and how you choose to interact with her.
<i ran out of gas> lol
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