I agree with all of you about the disposable marriages. We talked about this at length on the marriage retreat weekend and what causes this and about the concept of marriages now being contracts rather than a covenant. We also discussed the realities of love: what it is, what it isn't... the laws of attraction...all of that. I know it was supposed to help those that were wayward to come to their senses. Well, also to help the LBSs to know that some of their behaviors are actually driving their WS's further away (clinging tighter, pleading, appeasing, etc...)
Like most everything else when we try to educate the wayward, I don't know how much of it stuck. However, the truth darts and planting some seeds sure didn't hurt!
I still want to write more about the retreat and what I learned. I hope to do that soon....
