First of all – I just want you all to know that I took your advice of the morning to heart and went out and did all SUNNY stuff today and didn’t worry at all about what I could/should be doing in M situation or for H! It was great! Spent ½ the day with a great friend of mine that I just found out last week has gone through all of this! I was really surprised but glad I had confided in her. Her marriage is really good now – but H cheated on her, left, had an A or 2 – but they worked it all out eventually.

Spent another hour or so conversing back and forth with one of the women from the weekend retreat H and I went to. Her H does not want to give up the OW at this point, so I sent her a bunch of your stuff, Allen, that I have saved! She was SOOO grateful! He has had a dozen affairs. Strange man knocked on her door a year ago and told her of the A between his W and her H. Guess he was Exposing!

The rest of the day and evening I spent with my awesome boys. Took them to dinner and to the first football game of the season. S14 and I came home a little early. H texted me a few times today but not much and I didn’t even care. I didn’t worry at all about what he is up to on his business trip. He did text me saying he wished he was at the game. (High school football is HUGE where we are at!) In fact, our school is the #2 sports program in the nation. We were #1 last year but came in 2nd by a tiny margin to another program this year.

Sidenote: It was VERY hard for me to walk into the stadium and not see DD cheering on the sidelines! frown I miss her greatly. She and I have a special relationship and it’s hard with her being away at school now. She’s doing great in her new place, but still hard on mom.

Anyway, I had a great day today and I know it’s because of all the awesome advice I got here – reminding me to quit worrying about the affects on H and just do what I do for me. SO….thanks!!!!

Last edited by SunnyD; 08/27/10 02:21 AM.