Thanks Allen for the link. Was that in her book or an article she wrote? I wish I had asked those tough questions. Then again, if you asked my W if she would leave me because we drifted apart she probably would have said no.
Before I got married I told my W, "One of the great things I see about us getting married is when we hit problems, and we will hit them, we both know how to work through them."
Its not easy to find, and her site doesn't offer a search engine... I write software for a living... Every time I come to her site I want to wring her webmaster's kneck with a pair of smelly socks
I just pasted the last two paragraphs but the rest is good too