busto no @ss rubs here, not from men anyway. Thanks Rob it felt good and liberating. I finally picked myself up from being the door mat and said enough. I know people say women find it attractive, but i didnt do it for that. I did it for me. She has been in the driver's seat for so long I finally had to throw her in the back seat for my kids. I am looking for places to move to and will get a lease or something before our court date in 2 weeks. She is so selfish and stuborn right now, she looks at me putting my foot down as manipulative, but that is the way she has been for quite some time, she needs to look in the friggin mirror.