Goa ahead, attack me. You've done it before. I saved my marriage. I live happily with my husband of 31 years and we have an active and satisfying sex life. I know how I got from where we were when we were on the verge of divorce to where we are today. And I know that if either of us had lashed out at the other anywhere along the way, we would have been divorced like so many others. Marriage is about getting along; not getting even.
