Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

I know she didn't just get pissed last week. My question was though what does it matter now? I do get it how mad she was and maybe still is. If she got pissed at me for sending her flowers for her birthday then that's sad.

That's sort of been my point though. If she's so pissed then perhaps she is still emotionally invested. I've had three ICs tell me this. I read books explaining this. Her being pissed is potentially a good thing. If she can begin to let go of that anger then that's when the work on the R can begin. I need to know from her how I can help her with this...lose the anger.