A blissful month with no contact. You are lucky. Right now it's more desirable than contact. Boy, did I find that out. And not only that, you can be proud of yourself. You set the boundary and made him abide by it. And closure? I had to explain to a friend yesterday that, divorce or no, there is no closure until there is closure in my heart, regardless of any paper.
Hang in there. ((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011
