Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

True, DB coach suggested to stall for relationship, lawyers advised to stall for legal reasons. I'm not trying to be arrogant or difficult by asking this question but what does it matter at this point if she's pissed? Is signing a separation agreement now really going to make any difference with her?

What difference does it make that she is trying for different reasons? Fact is she isn't trying for M. Am I supposed to be supportive of that?

Ok, I can agree that I need to be the only one taking care of the business end of the house issues. She CAN at least help out with the house cleaning, do something. Problem is she doesn't even offer to help.

Maybe she doesn't do anythiing because I haven't done things she wants like the separation agreement, maybe not. If that's the case that's petty if you ask me. I'm doing a lot of other things for her. She should be helping in some other way. I know she won't though.

IC advised me to continue to GAL. Not spend time worrying about what she does. Said to date if/when I'm ready. Basically to move on and if she comes back to worry about it then.