that grandmother example is perfect, NM! Yes. He wants me to reassure him and my presence and 'friendship' do that. Plus, he's always on the hunt for a listening ear! And I fill that quite nicely. But no mo'!
I wrote him today, said I didn't want to talk but he could send me a goodbye email, and said he could come over tomorrow because i will be with a friend, she and i will leave and both come back in about an hour and then he can leave.
he said okay and he could stay as long as i needed him.
so that's that.
me, 30 WH, 29 D born June 2010 M: July 2001 Bomb/S: 1/14/10 Done with it all.