FTR...your posted appeared on my crackberry and when I read I just about got into a car accident - LOL.
Pun this may hurt and remember it is only MY OPINION.
First - I hate to tell you but YOUR H already knows that you want your M. Your actions have said this!
2 - What is the old saying never believe what they say and only 50 % of what they do.
3 - Why would you EVEN consider an extension? On mean seriously...are you afraid that he may leave? Are you afraid that you can't wait?
4 - What DO YOU want? Are you going to be satisfied with an extension?
I am not going to tell you what to do - ah...F it I am...I would NOT respond at all.
Punkin - I am sorry...You are still looking at your H. You still think that something YOU do will snap his as* out of it. I know where you are...been there done dat!
Nothing you do will snap him out. Not an email that says I love..I miss you...nothing - only He can snap himself out.
You may not like my post - but please know that I care about you. I want nothing but the best for you.
Save you...work on you....let him work on him.
I am sorry If this was not the response you wanted.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans