I emailed my H today. I sent three simple words. No not those three words. I simply said " I miss you". He replied "?" I emailed "I would like our marriage to work out". He replied, " If your sign those papers and have them noterized, I will agree to prolong the divorce until March as you wanted." I replied " That's just a postponement. I want to work on OUR marriage." He says " For right now I will agree to postpone our divorce until March if you sign. What happens between now and March is up in the air." I answered, " My capacity to forgive is as least as large as my capacity to love. I don't want to bargain. I want our relationship back." He responded," I already told you that this is the best I can do. I'm not bargaining at all, I'm just telling you what I'm also willing to do."
Now, for you that have been following my thread, you know that I have been agonizing over how to 'put it out there' that I still want our M. Having plainly stated same, he responds with 'a deal'. Excuse me? His last response was at 1:32 today. I have not answered. Does he really think I'm going to sell myself short that way. That I have no self-respect whatsoever?
To Respond or Not to Respond, that is the question. Whether to withstand the slings and arrows and tell him to go straight to Hell, or to remain meek and respondent? Or not to answer at all.
