Looking for help with WAW

[TimeHeals]

Yes, I agree that the financial mess was her breaking point. I know they were other things.

All fine and good. You have room to improve, and the next time you are in a relationship that is a good one, you won't make those same mistakes.

Problem: you aren't in one now, and you have to accept that.

I can't see the future and whether or not something will happen that will make your wife change her mind, or if you will want her back if she does, but...

I can see what you will not let yourself see: this marriage is currently dead. You have to accept that and stop trying to force her to see what you see, feel what you feel, and so on. Let it all go.