MM78 I know the fear you feel when you read Coach's post. But I firmly believe his advice is spot on.

Things won't move unless YOU move them. He's cake eating. He already told you he was stopping contact and now he's gone back on that. You can't trust him.

Cut him loose and see what happens. The only way past fear is through it. Claim your power and self respect back. How long do you want to continue feeling your heart totally sink?

Haven't you felt it enough?

MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!