When I was staying over there I also paraded around with my shirt off and wearing boxers that I didnt realize my package was hanging out of and she said she felt violated that I was sitting next to her with my stuff hanging out (she wouldn't feel violated by a gay friend, right?). And when she walked in on me while I was showering, she was nervously checking me out then left. In other words, I think there is something sexual still there, but she is scared or turned off still cause of the trust issues.
Busto,
I'm sorry, but I think your wife has some serious sexual issues and hangups. Was she ever abused when she was younger or anything like that? Her behavior is just WIERD, and I would caution you when she's making statements like what I've bolded above. It is VERY common for a wayward wife to use these kinds of accusations legally against you -- I see it on here all the time.
And Robx, I'd also be curious to know what, specifically, you don't like about Harley's approach.
Puppy
Bustorama cannot fill a love bucket if it has holes in it.
And bustorama, when she saw your "goods", and said she felt violated, yes, that's the gay friend zone, you don't realize that it's ok for her to show off her body to you when you're the "gay" friend because like I said, there is no chance at any sexual activity, but as soon as she senses that there might be sexual pursuit from you, it offends her - it totally proved my point about you being the gay friend, she doesn't expect any sexual activity out of you and when you offer the mere presence of it, she gets offended because you are ruining the gay friend idea she associates with you.
