I think you are handling things well. It is hard to detach without distancing yourself and keeping a good balance. Just keep seeing where things go. It sounds good that H said how good it is to be with you and how it is better to be around you.
The phone thing...could be anything maybe collectors calling, maybe OW3 is driving him crazy, who knows? Just keep living your life and if H asks to join like last night..let him.
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