Thanks SA
I have zero expectations as this is the third time this has happened this year.
I know he is really depressed, as he is saying he has nothing to live for. Not only to me but to others too.
This could be just sympathy though.
I am not sure how to tell if he ahs hit Rock Bottom.
All I know is OW is still living there.
I have read though that when they start to awaken OW can still be around.
Thanks for your input.
HUGS