Thanks DSH let's keep each other in check!

But in reality, I'm going to wait until I hear back from her on the mediation. I've suggested that since it is such a large expenditure ($1500-4000) that we should wait until we get back from Retrouvialle to do it, and I would gladly do whatever she wants after that. She said no, that she wants to do it ASAP.

I have S4 today and tomorrow. She is going batsh!t crazy over at her aunt's where she is staying. So far today:

- 2 txts before noon
- 1 phone call before noon
- 2 phone calls after 1:00pm

She is missing not only her little boy, but the life we had here. I can feel it.


Matter of fact! While I was typing this, I JUST SAW HER DRIVE BY THE HOUSE. There is NO way she should be around here, her aunt is on the other side of town.

She is so attached to S4. She's been with him every day of his life for 4 years as a SAHM. She misses him like crazy. I don't think she REALLY realizes what it's going to be like when she has to give him up 40% of the time, with a 5-day stretch of not seeing him. She just doesn't understand what D does to families and parents. She thinks being selfish is OK - but all she wants is her S4.

Last edited by john28; 08/26/10 08:24 PM.

----"Et tu, Brute?"----
me:28 W:24 S4
T:6
M:4
EA Exposed: 5/21/10
Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day)
NC w/ OM: 7/10/10
W moved out 8/21/10
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