Then why bring it up? She says she wants stuff done asap, just bc you pack up her stuff does not mean if you reconcile it cant be unpacked? They key to this and what many vets have been beating into my head is that you have to show them you are moving on as well, wouldnt that be a good sign? If you dont work out then her stuff is packed and you dont have to deal with it later. You and I both waffle back and forth, by posting to you I am also re reading what I write for my own sitch. Stop waffling if you do like I have, the W will think she has you as a soft cushion to fall back on, help her see reality you have a tool you could use write now, she left pack her sh!t!!!
