You have to get out of this D, the sooner you do the better you'll feel. And you will feel better, I promise!
Amen to that. I am now at the point where I am saying I can't wait for it to be over with. I did retain an L to respond to stbx's f-ckery/papers. My L wrote a letter to stbx's L saying its' ridiculous for him to sue me over mortgage and that we will see them in court, that I'll forego court if we can come up with some sort of agreement (which I know won't happen--stbx will not budge). My L said after the property/PSA is figured out, then we can go through w/ the D. I want a D now. Today. What a shift from how I was feeling even a month ago, wanting to work things out. It ebbs and flows. Gah!
Can you post Ellie's post for me here Romeo? Or link it?
Originally Posted By: rockedHERworld
Nobody is a perfect spouse. I wasn't, and I am sure you weren't.
Very true. How did you finally start getting over that sick feeling?
As for regrets... I honestly don't think he will regret this. I'd like to think he will (wouldn't we all?), but the fact is, whne someone goes as far as to file for D , their mind is pretty made up. They must be so over you and the M if they can do that like it's a regular Tuesday. I find myself thinking about whether he's seeing someone. He denies but who knows. I suppose time will tell.
