Looking for help with WAW

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Maybe I don't have a clue or maybe it just doesn't matter to my W what I do.

This is not your first day. YOu know you have to do all these changes for you, not to get the attention of your W.

I didn't say anything about her being with OM. It's none of my business. She is a big girl and she makes her own decisions.
Yeah it hurt at first, but I believe I have fully detached from her.

I'm still confused why most people here are told to expose the A but I'm being advised to ignore it? Still trying to make sense of that. Public dating website or not, shouldn't the same rules still apply? She's basically getting away with it and no one is telling her it's wrong. Feel like my W isn't dating to heal herself. Think she's doing it looking for some magic fantasy.

It's like City girl said, she has been separated for a year now. In her mind your M is over.
In Bold- This is still a lot of mind reading here.

YOU need to go out and talk to OW to heal(Not necessarily date). In the process you will learn more about communicating better with them.
Remember your W is so far ahead of you on the curve.


Detach, detach, detach........................
you WILL feel so much better.